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What do I actually want?
Stay or leave? Security or something new? Maybe you know what you don’t want anymore, but you’re not sure what you want instead.
Personal coaching
Get clear on what you want. Make choices that feel right. Take action.
Maybe you’re thinking about changing careers, putting off an important decision, considering something of your own, or simply feeling that your life no longer fits quite the way it used to.
We figure out what you want, what’s holding you back, and what you’re going to do about it.
30 minutes · online · no obligation
Why this matters to me
I used to be much less afraid of simply choosing.
On my 21st birthday, I was on Koh Phi Phi.
I travelled through Thailand, Cambodia and Singapore, moved to Brussels for my studies and threw myself into a degree taught in French.
I tried things because I wanted to try them.
Somewhere along the way, that changed.
I started doubting myself more. I paid more attention to what I was supposed to do, what seemed sensible and what other people might think.
And sometimes, I stayed in situations far longer than I knew was good for me.
My life didn’t change because of one big insight.
It changed over the years because I started making choices again.
Some small. Others with much bigger consequences.
I tried things. Changed my mind. Changed direction.
And gradually, I learned to trust my own decisions again.
The biggest thing I learned?
You don’t have to be 100% sure before you move.
You choose.
You try.
You see what works.
You adjust.
And along the way, you build the confidence that you’ll be able to handle the next choice too.
That’s how I see coaching.
I’m not here to tell you what to do with your life.
I’m here to help you get clear on what you want, understand what’s holding you back, and decide what your next move will be.
Does this sound familiar?
Maybe you recognise yourself in this
- You’ve been thinking about changing jobs, but you’re not sure you dare to make the move.
- You have an idea of your own, but keep putting it off.
- You want to say no more often, but still find yourself adapting to everyone else.
- You keep running every possible scenario of an important decision through your head.
- You know what you want, but worry about what other people will think.
- Life is going pretty well, but something still keeps nagging at you.
Personal coaching
What can we work on together?
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What’s holding me back?
Afraid of making the wrong choice? Waiting until you’re completely sure? Or spending too much time thinking about what everyone else will think?
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What choice am I going to make?
A different job. A course. Starting something of your own. Setting a boundary. Creating more space for yourself. Sometimes a seemingly small choice changes a lot.
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And what am I going to do about it?
Knowing what you want is one thing. We figure out your first real step and what you need to actually take it.
How I coach
I’m not going to solve your life for you.
I don’t know better than you which job you should choose, whether you should stay or leave, or whether that idea of yours is sensible or completely mad.
But I can sit beside you while you figure it out.
I ask questions. Sometimes uncomfortable ones.
I reflect back what I hear.
I help you see where you might be getting in your own way, and I challenge you when you’ve found yet another very convincing reason not to do something.
The choice stays yours.
Coaching happens online through conversations and, where useful, via WhatsApp.
What’s on your mind?
You don’t need to arrive with a perfectly defined coaching question.
Maybe you have a decision to make.
Maybe you want to change something.
Maybe you want to build something.
Or maybe you simply want to say things out loud and figure out what you actually want.
30 minutes · online · no obligation